Make Habits, Not Resolutions
Every year, as the calendar flips to January, we find ourselves swept up in the tradition of setting resolutions.
Lose weight.
Read more.
Save money.
While these are worthwhile pursuits, how often do they fizzle out by February?
As Christians, we are called to something deeper than fleeting resolutions. God desires transformation in our lives, not just quick fixes. The key lies in forming godly habits rather than making superficial resolutions.
The Biblical Call to Discipline
Scripture teaches us the importance of discipline in our walk with Christ. Paul writes, “Train yourself for godliness” (1 Timothy 4:7), emphasizing that spiritual growth requires intentionality and perseverance. Similarly, Hebrews 12:11 reminds us, “For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”
Discipline isn’t easy, but it leads to lasting transformation.
Essential Christian Virtues and Disciplines
To grow in Christlikeness, we must prioritize cultivating certain virtues and spiritual disciplines. Here are a few:
- Prayer: Jesus modeled a life of constant communion with the Father. Make prayer a daily habit by setting aside specific times to pray, whether in the morning, during lunch, or before bed. Use a prayer journal or a prayer app to stay consistent and focused.
- Bible Reading: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105). Engage with God’s Word daily. Choose a Bible reading plan, a book of the Bible, or a theologically-rich devotional for this year. Meditate on and memorize Scripture, allowing it to shape your thoughts and actions.
- Worship: Worship is more than singing on Sundays—it’s a lifestyle. Cultivate a heart of gratitude and praise in all circumstances. Whether through music, prayer, or serving others, make worship a regular rhythm in your life.
- Fellowship: The Christian life is not meant to be lived in isolation. Join our small group Bible studies, attend church and ABF regularly, and invest in relationships with other believers. As Proverbs 27:17 says, “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.” Let Pastor DeAngelo know if you are interested in starting a new discipleship relationship!
- Service: Jesus came to serve, not to be served (Mark 10:45). Look for ways to serve in your church, community, and beyond. Serving others shifts our focus from ourselves to the needs of others, reflecting Christ’s love. Reach out to the church office if you need ideas!
Turning Virtues into Habits
The key to lasting change is consistency.
Here are practical steps to help you form habits that stick:
- Start Small: Don’t try to overhaul your life overnight. Begin with one discipline or virtue, and commit to it. For example, if prayer feels overwhelming, start with five minutes a day and gradually increase the time.
- Rely on God’s Strength: Remember, true transformation comes from the Holy Spirit working in us. Pray for God’s strength and guidance as you seek to form godly habits.
Now, sinner, hands off your own righteousness. Drop all idea of becoming better through your own strength. – C. H. Spurgeon
- Set Reminders: Use tools like alarms, sticky notes, or apps to remind you of your commitments. These prompts can help you stay on track until the habit becomes second nature.
- Be Accountable: Share your goals with a trusted friend, mentor, or Bible study small group. Accountability enables encouragement and support to happen when challenges arise.
- Celebrate Progress: Recognize and celebrate small victories along the way. Growth takes time, and each step forward is worth rejoicing over.
Praise the Lord for His work in your life!
The Eternal Perspective
Unlike fleeting resolutions, habits rooted in Christ have eternal significance. They draw us closer to God, deepen our faith, and prepare us for the good works He has called us to do (Ephesians 2:10). As we invest in these habits, we will see not just temporary improvement but lasting spiritual fruit.
So this year, leave behind resolutions that fade, and instead pursue habits that endure.
Let’s commit to training ourselves for godliness, one small step at a time, trusting that God will complete the good work He has begun in us (Philippians 1:6).
I would in concluding make this remark. I wish, my brothers and sisters, that during this year you may live nearer to Christ than you have ever done before. Depend upon it, it is when we think much of Christ that we think little of ourselves, little of our troubles, and little of the doubts and fears that surround us. Begin from this day, and may God help you. – C. H. Spurgeon